[ SECRET POST #2896 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2896 ⌋

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Comments

[kaffy_r]

As someone who's about to celebrate her 33rd anniversary (going on 34th if we take the time living together into consideration), I can tell you that being best friends with the person you love is, as far as I can see, a prerequisite to a long relationship. One can fall in love, hard and strong - which I did - and still not make it in a relationship. You truly do need more than love, or more than romantic love. Luckily, I also fell hard in like. And I can tell you that, with the two things still going strong, the passion is still there. And the laughs, and the comfort.

[kallanda_lee]

Well, that's great to hear. I only ever been in relationship with people I considered friends first - though personally I do struggle with dwindling passion over the years. I'm just one of those people who really enjoys the "crazy in love" phase.

Also happy birthday!

[kaffy_r]

Thanks; I was mostly agreeing with you that friendship is a necessary base of long term relationships (which I got out of your original comment; if that wasn't what you were actually talking about, my apologies. And the reality of at least my long relationship is that passion does indeed wane - and then suddenly and wonderfully waxes. You just end up realizing that the passion cycles, just like most everything in life.

Thanks for the birthday wishes; my actual birthday was back in September. My Best Beloved and I met in January of 1981, moved in together in May of that year, and got married in December of that year. It has been the weirdest ride of my life, and one I am so very glad I fell into.

[kallanda_lee]

That sounds pretty wonderful, actually ;)