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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-31 06:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2920 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2920 ⌋

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Re: Why is female sexuality so creepy?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-01 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
I have multiple problems with this argument but probably my biggest one is the massive assumptions you're making re: women's potential preferences for live action porn

I strongly suspect that fewer women like live action poem is because live action porn is directed towards male fantasies. In a world where that wasn't the case, I imagine loads of women would watch porn. Put it another way - I strongly doubt that the decision to watch or not watch live action porn has anything at all to do with the morality of the porn industry for most men or most women, and certainly it doesn't have to do with it on the level of sexual fantasy, so I am extremely skeptical that this is any kind of evidence about anything intrinsic to either genders sexuality.

Re: Why is female sexuality so creepy?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-01 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
But you admit that fewer women watch live action porn. Thus, for me, it's inherently less creepy because no real person is involved. Even rape fic isn't as big a deal because it's just words on a page.

But when you see actress after actress getting reamed by 5-10 guys and after you've heard some of the horror stories, well, I can't help but to see that as "creepier." At the very least, it makes me far more uncomfortable than even the weirdest shit that some women write.

Plus, is the porn most women watch so very violent? Because I have watched a little bit of porn directed towards women and, while there is violence, it tends to be confined to an established BDSM scene. Porn geared towards women (from what I've seen which isn't a ton, admittedly) tends to be a lot more tender.

Porn directed towards men seems to focus so much on degrading and hurting women.

Mind you, I don't have any issue with watching porn in and of itself. But the way women are treated in porn makes me uncomfortable and I think it's a big reason a lot of women don't like it in the first place. I know that is true for me at least.