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⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[herpymcderp]

There comes a time when it's just too much effort to be involved in the personal affairs of a toxic friend. That time is probably now.

They might be angry with you for a while, but it's past time to tell her directly that she can't move in with you and she needs to sort out her situation for herself.

I have stopped living with friends before for bad behaviour (always complaining, never doing chores, making the house a generally less pleasant place to live). It was totally worth it. My own mental and emotional state were even worse than I had realized from having to deal with their shitty outlook on life day in and day out.

By all means, be there as someone for her to talk to, but it's past time to make it clear that that's the only role you can play in her life.

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[(Anonymous)]

I did give her a firm no on it, so she's not directly asking anymore but she makes constant comments about ppl lying and no safety nets and no friends. I've been trying to get her more friends and I remember how horrible it was when I was depressed ...but nothing changed until I started trying to fix it and fight through the apathy and she's not at that stage yet?

I'm kind of irritated with her bf leaving her. Except she's the one breaking it off and I can understand why he's been distant with her. I think she's angry with both of us because our jobs are similar with deployment type things so we are never around. But she dropped off the social grid for a couple of years with her job so I resent when she gets pissy over us disappearing for a couple of weeks.

I think I need to do that. Roles as a listener only, but not financial support or guaranteed home. :(

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[(Anonymous)]

I'm kind of irritated with her bf leaving her

If half of what you've said about her is true, I'm surprised she got someone to stick around in the first place tbh

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I certainly don't blame him and technically she's ditching him. I guess I'm more irritated it didn't work out. Or that's it's 'conveniently' stopping when I'm moving :s