[ SECRET POST #2930 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[othellia]

I wish I could break this friendship off. But I think im her only friend? Everytime I try to pint out bad behaviour she turns it into me hurting her.

Hmmm... I wonder why she doesn't have any other friends.

Honestly, she's the one who needs you right now, so there is no need for you to put up with her shit. She might make it easier financially, but like you said yourself it will just cause you emotional stress and it's not worth it.

I'd personally just grow slightly more and more distant until we didn't really talk anymore, but if you don't want to break it completely off, I'd say keep doing what you're doing. Stick to your guns. Don't get an apartment with her. Keep a healthy distance. (You mentioned she realized you'll stop talking to her if she talks smack about you, so it seems she's capable of taking a hint.)

If that removed friendship is enough for her then congrats. She'll take what she can get. If not, she might throw a temper tantrum and stop contact, but then it'd be on her and you'd be free.

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[(Anonymous)]

That is a good idea. I just get so stressed whenever housing comes up because she makes those subtle comments and unless they are outright I'm not good at talking back.

I'm sticking to my guns on the house like woah. It's ...I've bought this house. The dynamic will be so different to rentals and I tried to explain that to her. It won't work.
(And:..I don't trust her. I don't trust her to take advantage of me the place and after her text rants and photo breaking spree - my stuff. She only does the really shitty rants via text but still don't want to live with that)

And this feels all so shitty cause she's clearly depressed and possibly homeless but she has a few months to find a placeso not much rush? She's not even trying. Goes straight to talking about ditching her cat for a place. That could be a depression straight to worse scenarios but can't live with that.

Sorry. This is do upsetting, I've found break ups easier than this.

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[insanenoodlyguy]

Anybody who so blatantly disrespects the property of others is somebody you shouldn't let near your property.