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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-11 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2930 ]


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Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-01-12 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Whatever you do, do not move in with her. Nopity nope nope.

There's not a lot you can do to help her and I totally understand that frustration. But you can't emburden yourself with the responsibility of helping her get her shit together if she doesn't want to do it. She has to want to change or it will never happen, and if she can find an easier way to bandage her situation in the short-term (i.e. live with you again) she will.

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

(Anonymous) 2015-01-12 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
This is a situation where I really don't want her in, even as a couch surfer. :( I feel horrible but I think I can stick to that.

It's just shitty all around and I wish this wasn't necessary :( why does this have to be so hard D:
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Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-01-13 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely do not let her couch surf!

I'm sorry things are so hard. I understand that it's very frustrating sometimes to balance taking care of yourself, and taking care of other people - especially when those other people don't think they need any help or care, and their behavior is really toxic. :(