[ SECRET POST #2930 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[lb_lee]

Okay, you know what Anon, I have been that friend who's been homeless.

And you know what, I had friends flat out tell me they could not take me in. AND THAT'S OKAY. Even though I was severely mentally ill and frustrated and would've eaten kitten meat if it got me stable housing, I was able to understand that sometimes, people just couldn't keep me. Sometimes, shit is shitty, and it's not anyone's fault, it just IS.

Keep trying to pull back, even if it's difficult. And if you only have mutual friends, for the love of god, try and find new ones. I've been stuck in those shitty situations where everyone knows everyone, and it's the reason I now have a policy of having at least TWO groups of friends who know nothing about each other.

And don't let her pressure or guilt-trip you. You are under no obligation to live with anyone. You do not need to give a reason, you do not need to apologize. That's not a lack of a safety net, that's LIFE.

Get the hell out while you can, yo.

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[(Anonymous)]

I have friends outside our mutual friends at least, my concern is she's not close to our mutual friends and aside from her bf's friends, that she said she will drop, she has no others?

I wonder if she's broken up with him yet. I'm really hoping he'll keep her unless it's as bad for him as me. I honestly had no idea they were so rocky.

But thanks :( I think it is time to quietly make my exit from her. Or distance like fuck cause all those mutual weddings.

I do hope she fixes up, but that's not gonna happen in my house :(

Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

[lb_lee]

my concern is she's not close to our mutual friends and aside from her bf's friends, that she said she will drop, she has no others?

That is her concern, not yours. You are not in charge of making this woman's social life for her. You have your own life, and she has hers, and that is okay. She will make new friends.