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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-15 09:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2934 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2934 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Certainly not everyone, but you do you, OP. I admit I'm curious as to how you select your dates to fill those sexual reqs: do you mean you go out with guys who look like that and only continue dating them once you find out they have those sexual preferences? Cause that's not exactly getting to know people material.

Also, where are all those men interested in pegging? I'd like to find them.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-01-16 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
There are some on fetish sites, but that in itself comes with its own set of problems.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, no, online dating isn't for me. I'll stick to suggesting it until I find someone who's into it.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
I don't get why some folks still have a thing against online dating. It works better, especially if you're looking for something, y'know, specific. ;)

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt:

Eh, call me an old woman but I just can't do it. Too much hassle and stress over who's a creep when I can just go to a bar to get a date. But I see the appeal for someone who's really into specifics. I'm just fine with suggesting things to people and seeing if it sticks, even if it does take longer to get a yes.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 07:23 am (UTC)(link)
You do get a lot of messages from creepers, but it's usually clear from looking at a profile what kind of person someone is. And it's not like you don't meet creeps irl, anyway. With online dating you can filter the creeps out via messaging and such before you have to meet them irl.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
I can occasionally get people to try pegging at least once if they seem kind of into me being on the receiving end of anal. A fair is fair sort of deal.

Doesn't always work, of course, but sometimes.

OP

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 07:06 am (UTC)(link)
Dating sites often have all that info up front. On OKCupid (where I met my current BF) you can declare yourself as kinky or open to exploration or dominant or submissive or whatever. It's easy to find what you want. Besides, you start a casual sex thing, you'll know what kind of sex they want before you get serious.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 09:15 am (UTC)(link)
My favorite little code on OkCupid is when people list Secretary as one of their favorite movies. It's not actually anyone's favorite, but it's a nice quiet way of running up a flag and seeing who salutes.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2015-01-16 09:47 am (UTC)(link)
Is there an equivalent that someone could use for a dominant female or submissive male, though? I can think of so much media involving dominant males and submissive women, but nothing of the opposite. :(