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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-20 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2939 ]


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Re: Advice in regards to bullying

(Anonymous) 2015-01-21 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
Don't bring up your niece's weight to her.

My parents tried this with my sister and it made her depressed as hell and didn't help her lose weight. She lost well over 80 pounds once she got to college, however, after a few years.

The thing to do is to talk to your sister about food in the house. Stop buying cookies/sweets/super-fattening foods. Try to make healthy meals and make sure people don't snack in between. Make it a family endeavor and don't single the niece out.

From my experience, putting pressure on someone to lose weight only makes it worse. I imagine, now more than ever, she's aware that she's at an unhealthy weight and putting more pressure on her is only going to make her feel worse.