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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-20 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2939 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2939 ⌋

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Re: Advice in regards to bullying

(Anonymous) 2015-01-21 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly?

I think you're possibly the worst person to try and help her.

You're already incredibly judgmental of her -- her clothing choice, her "odd" make-up, bringing up her weight and assuming she doesn't care when you have no idea how she really feels -- that I think your attitude will only do more harm than good.

You've already made her feel worse. Time to step back and let someone else help her.

Re: Advice in regards to bullying

(Anonymous) 2015-01-21 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
+1

Your job is to be sympathetic to your niece, not to "fix" her.
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Re: Advice in regards to bullying

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-01-21 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
Basically - the niece sounds a bit like me at that age, and that would have been the worst advice ever.
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Re: Advice in regards to bullying

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-01-21 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
+3
OP you just don't sound supportive :/