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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-20 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2939 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2939 ⌋

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Re: Advice in regards to bullying

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-21 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Not sure if you're serious, OP, but honestly, when I was getting shit from others, I would've loved most to just have someone I could TALK to about it. Not someone who tried to tell me what magic trick would solve the problem ("don't react; that encourages them!" "Fight back or they'll know you're a wuss!" "have you ever considered just not being a weirdo?"), not someone who came up with a magic solution that might actually be impossible to implement ("just go to the cops or any future incidents are your fault!"), just someone who would listen and comfort me.

Also, if I was getting bullied a lot, I probably wouldn't give much of a shit about my weight either. (Though I went the opposite direction.)