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Re: Advice in regards to bullying
(Anonymous) 2015-01-21 03:31 am (UTC)(link)She knows. Trust me, she knows, and she probably does care if they're bullying her about it. You do not need to remind her. I wouldn't be surprised at all if the bullying is actually making her gain more weight due to the stress and low-self esteem it causes.
Mentioning it will only make her feel worse.
It doesn't matter how fat someone is, they don't deserve to be bullied.
(And honestly... it often doesn't matter whether someone's fat or skinny, bullies will pick ANYTHING, the smallest most inconsequential thing to hurt someone over.)
The usual advice applies: Tell adults. Tell the teachers, tell the school. If the teacher doesn't do anything, go higher up. And keep going higher up until someone DOES do something and acts like a competent adult.
I wouldn't necessarily tell her to ignore the bullying, though. But it can be good to try to avoid the bullies in the meantime.