[ SECRET POST #2940 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2940 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Doctor Who]


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04.
[Fire Emblem Awakening]


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05.
[Sleepy Hollow]


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06.
[Agents of SHIELD]


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[Babylon 5]


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08.
[Sinfest]


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09.
[Weekly Wipe with Charlie Brooker]


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[Sailor Moon Crystal]













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Comments

Re: Hints?

[caerbannog]

Boundaries are so hard but hopefully she'll listen. I can do once a week but outside of that is really too much and not necessary. I'll stick my phone in airplane mode if I have to!
(And probably will do at some point because I need a people free week x-x)

I don't think she's that bad yet, but she's got some odd ideas of how a family is 'meant' to be like* including things like loads of phone calls and always available (just not physically possible)

* wanting it is fine but there is no correct family behaviour. People aren't checkboxes...I hope her therapist explains this to her.

Re: Hints?

[lb_lee]

Yeah, obviously my system is pretty hardcore, and probably overkill for your situation. I just figured, better safe than sorry, and you sounded pretty sick of it.

Keeping boundaries is REALLY hard, especially since a lot of it boils down to, "Don't say no too hard, that's rude," which makes it easy for some folks to ignore or misunderstand. Sometimes, you have to put your foot down, and when you're dreading your phone ringing, it's time.