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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-03 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2953 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2953 ⌋

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Re: Clothing Rant

(Anonymous) 2015-02-04 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
Chill, friend classy-dresser. This might indeed be adding to the difficulty of getting to know people -- but lots of little things add to the difficulty of people getting to know each other all the time. Or rather: getting to know people is hard. Heck, starting college, everyone's going to be nervous and searching for any cues that can help them make sense of each other at a glance. First impressions suck, so work to move past them. Practice your social skills even though you don't make a friend every conversation. Put acceptance of the people you're talking to out there and it can encourage them to reciprocate.

You're also going to learn to be more comfortable with yourself and the image you project; and yeah, you're projecting an image, and you always have been even if you didn't realize it, but again, so does everybody. You can't make everyone like you, but when you're comfortable with yourself it's easier to make other people feel like they can be comfortable with you.