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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-08 03:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2958 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2958 ⌋

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Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I just felt really condescended to.

I mean, when the topic of violent video games leading to real life violence comes up, most people (rightly, in my opinion) points out that this is absurd. (I personally think that violent video games may be symptomatic of a violent society but it's not the CAUSE of violence in any way, shape, or form).

But then when women want to enjoy a porn fantasy, suddenly, we have to "protect" them from becoming domestic violence victims. And I don't deny that society can shape women's sexual desires, but I don't think liking rape fantasy porn is in any way indicative of being at risk for domestic violence. And I felt incredibly patronized to be honest.

Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but I agree 100%. I'm not really down on this type of moral outrage.

people said this shit about Twilight, too. They've said it about all sorts of women-oriented material.

It's just another way to infantalize and dis-empower young women. They can't handle all this sexy literature! It'll warp their fragile lady-minds and make them fall in love with brooding predators!

Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
...Do you know how many girls have outright said they're looking for their Edward or Christian? I'm all for sexy literature geared toward women. I'm not all for literature that glorifies abuse.