[ SECRET POST #2958 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2958 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Boyfriend things... holy tl;dr batman

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know about patterns, but you're both very young and insecure. Three years dating this guy and you don't trust him? Yeah, that's not good.

On the other hand, his "jokes" about texting boys are probably not really jokes if he's making them this often, they're his insecurity talking. If you're tired of these remarks, you need to tell him so, gently but very firmly. "I know you think this is funny, but I don't. If you don't trust me, then we need to talk about that. If you do trust me, then the comments need to stop."

Your BF has a co-dependent relationship with this girl. Being needed and her treating him like a knight in shining armor can be addictive, even if he doesn't have any feelings for her. I'd focus not on what you think is happening or how you feel about her, but on his actual behavior. Is he ignoring you for her? Shutting you out emotionally? Focus on that, not her role in it even if she has one.