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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-08 03:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2958 ]


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Re: Boyfriend things... holy tl;dr batman

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I think you both need to have a talk about this.

For one thing, I think you should BOTH be able to text opposite sex friends without having to worry about it. Healthy relationships include having friends of your own.

But that being said, you really do need to talk to him about this girl and how you feel about it. Also ask him how he feels about you having guy friends that you text.

If he thinks it's okay to have this girl in his life but he doesn't want you texting guys, that can be a major red flag. He shouldn't be allowed to do anything in the relationship that you can't.

Basically, try to have a calm discussion about it. You can't continue to feel the way you've been feeling, it's natural to have insecurities in a relationship but you have to try to work through them. Best of luck.

Re: Boyfriend things... holy tl;dr batman

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, you put it better than I was going to.

If he's all suspicious of her having guy friends and she's all suspicious of him having this girl friend, neither has the moral high ground here. They're doing the same thing.