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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-08 03:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2958 ]


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Re: Dump his ass

(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't necessarily agree that he's definitely cheating or going to cheat. A lot of what the OP describes would raise alarm bells for me, but I'm also a very jealous and insecure person. If the OP is, too, her view of events might be skewed. (To the OP: You can be jealous without disliking her. Jealousy is often about the person you care about, not the person they care about.)

But on the other hand, I wouldn't rule cheating out. It mostly depends on how he acts in other areas. Does he talk openly on the phone with her, or is their friendship very hush-hush? Would he be upset if you accidentally looked at his email inbox/text record? Does he 'work late' a lot, or is he hard to get ahold of when he's out with friends?

I think the OP would need to look hard at her relationship and their history unless there are more red flags than 'he's got a friend and she's a girl and they're pretty close sometimes'.

But I also think this is the sort of thing her and her bf need to seriously talk about.