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⌈ Secret Post #2958 ⌋

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Re: Boyfriend things... holy tl;dr batman

[saku]

this resonates with me in two ways: one, i can empathise with your feelings, because this has happened to me a couple of times, and two, i've displayed some of your boyfriend's behaviour in the past.

re: the latter - if your boyfriend is anything like me, it's not something he's doing to mess with you or because he's getting cold feet about your relationship. either of those are possible ofc but it's not inherent. i was seeing a guy that i really really loved, deeply. he was the first person i ever fell in love with and i knew he was in love with me too. but he strung me along and fucked with me (unintentionally but he didn't bother to think mots of the time) and it tore us apart. he was also very jealous and both he and this Other Guy i had been talking to gave me an ultimatum which required that i pick one of them, so i did. but whenever i would argue or have a falling out with this person i would think of the one i had to let go, even though he was rly shitty tbh. i'd also think of other guys who i was no longer in touch with. it wasn't because i wanted to cheat on my guy or because i was having second thoughts - it was because, in times where i wasn't getting along with my guy, i felt very alone. i missed other people. it sounds like your guy has quite a few friends so that might not be it, but it's something to consider.

eta: i've also dealt with guys who were jealous of my other friends but didn't apply the same standards to their own interactions. sometime's the reasoning is sexist but other times it's a red flag, as others have said. i've also had a few times (most of which were with my current guy) where he'd be pissed off about a dream he had. one time i fucked vladimir putin in his dream and he woke up, gave me a kiss and then looked me dead in the eye and went "bitch!" so yeah.
i think some of the advice already given has been harsh but it's definitely right of you to feel suspicious. of course, some of his behaviour is relatable to me ie. the not thinking about old friends when he feels fulfilled BUT this is assuming he isn't lying when he says he doesn't think about her when things are going well between you two. he could be using that as a weapon when things are rough, which is abusive.