[ SECRET POST #2976 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2976 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Homestuck]


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[NCIS: Los Angeles/Hawaii Five-0]


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[Left Shark (Katy Perry? Super Bowl?) and Bad-Dragon .com]


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm biromantic heteorsexual, too, anon. I love having a romantic relationship with a woman. All the kissing, cuddling, silly lovey-dovey feelings, spending time gazing into each others eyes and wanting to hold hands all the time. It's awesome. But the only way I get off sexually is if there's a dick involved. It sucks because I actually prefer women romantically and I always feel crappy that a vagina in the face is a turn off for me. I'm not really good with my hands, either, so I getting a partner off is difficult for me.

So I understand where you're coming from, but I'm actually really happy they went with flat out bisexual. It was awesome to see that headcanon made into actual canon.

[(Anonymous)]

It baffles me that people don't see kissing and cuddling as being sexual. It's not intercourse, no, but it's still a sexual part of a romantic relationship.

[(Anonymous)]

it's almost like the same actions meant different things when you do them with different peopl-

nah, that's crazy

[(Anonymous)]

Kissing can be sexual or not depending on the type of kissing, but I don't see how cuddling is sexual at all. Even if you do it with someone you're in a sexual relationship with, the cuddling itself isn't sexual.

It may baffle you, but people see things differently.

[diet_poison]

Even if you do it with someone you're in a sexual relationship with, the cuddling itself isn't sexual.

For me it is. But it can be different if it's with someone I'm not in a sexual relationship with (though I...pretty much never do that but. I can see it happening. It wouldn't be sexual.)

Basically though I agree with you that people see things differently. It really annoys me when someone asserts that X must be sexual for everyone! just because it is for them.

[(Anonymous)]

Oops, there should've been a "to me" before the "cuddling itself isn't sexual". There would be times I'd cuddle with my ex while watching TV or something, that were totally outside of sex, so I see it as a separate thing, but I get that it's different for other people.

I think that's the main point of all this, though...that people have different experiences and see/react to things differently. It's when someone is like "well, it's this way for me, so it should be the same way for other people or else they're just wrong" that it bugs me.

[diet_poison]

I think that's the main point of all this, though...that people have different experiences and see/react to things differently.

Yep! Definitely agreed.