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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-27 07:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2977 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2977 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Paul Darrow]


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[Dragon Age: Inquisition]


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(Bee and Puppycat)


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[Joan Watson, Elementary]


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(Marvel's Agents of Shield)


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[One Piece]


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[Noah Emmerich, The Americans]


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[Teen Wolf]


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15. [ WARNING for rape ]



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16. [ WARNING for dubcon? ]










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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: confessions

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-02-28 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Feeling attraction for someone and actually wanting to have sex with them are two different things though.

I get your frustration. The thing that gets to me is when people explain asexuality in a way that makes it sound like "sexual" people go around wanting to jump everyone all the time.

But that's part of the same problem of acting like being attracted to someone, or even just having the potential to be attracted to a certain group of people, is the same as actively wanting to have sex with them. That leads to people acting like gay people can't be around people of the same sex because they want to sleep with every one of them and acting like bisexuals are literally attracted to everyone and that asexuals are people who just don't want to have sex rather than people who don't experience sexual attraction at all but may or may not have sex for whatever other reason.

Saying that some people don't experience sexual attraction until they get to know a person isn't saying that the people who do experience sexual attraction for people regardless of how well they know them actually want to have sex with all those people.