[ SECRET POST #2977 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2977 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Paul Darrow]


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[Dragon Age: Inquisition]


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(Bee and Puppycat)


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[Joan Watson, Elementary]


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(Marvel's Agents of Shield)


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[One Piece]


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[Noah Emmerich, The Americans]


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[Teen Wolf]


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15. [ WARNING for rape ]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #425.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: tw: death

[(Anonymous)]

Oh don't be fucking ridiculous. When I was social, I wasn't going around telling people about it. I was trying as hard as I could to put on a good face and keep that sir under wraps, because first of all, I didn't wanna burden anyone anymore than I already thought I was, and second of all, I didn't want anyone to know enough to be able to stop me. If I had succeeded, probably most people wouldn't have even known that I needed help. And that's the way it is for a LOT of suicidal people.

So you know what, fuck you, because you obviously have no clue what you're talking about and you're using people like me (or the people like me who didn't make it) to make a stupid, ignorant point. The person who doesn't actually care or understand is you.

Re: tw: death

[(Anonymous)]

SA

Damn phone. Suicidal, not social.

[feotakahari]

Holy shit. Do you think I have some kind of cause here? Some stupid movement to bowl people over with and act like I'm superior to them because they don't get it? I'm looking back at my post, and I can't see anything in it that goes enough against what you're saying to merit that kind of vehemence. You could read in some assumptions that would probably merit it, I guess, but I never intended to say anything that fucked up. (And if you're the same anon who responded to that other poster, great job on telling someone their personal experience has no basis in reality.)

[(Anonymous)]

Saying there's something wrong with people caring and being sad after someone they know commits suicide because they didn't care enough to help IS fucked up, and to get to that way of thinking, you have to make a whole bunch of assumptions about how suicidal people act. How can anybody help someone who hasn't said they need help and who's done everything they can to make it look like they don't? Should everyone just magically know somehow? Are people supposed to have some kind of "this person is suicidal" sense? And you're one o talk about invalidating experiences when you just said a bunch of people don't get to be sad when they lost someone because they didn't do enough to save them.

I didn't want to be saved and I tried to make sure no one could. It wasn't their fault, it wouldn't have been their fault of I died.

[feotakahari]

I have no idea what to say to this. Would "Sorry; I'll shut up now?" be enough? Any other response seems like it would be digging a bigger hole.

(And thank you for being so polite about it.)

[(Anonymous)]

And you're one o talk about invalidating experiences when you just said a bunch of people don't get to be sad when they lost someone because they didn't do enough to save them.

Hell yeah this.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

but, at least on first reading, your post definitely looks like it's saying that if someone you know commits suicide, it's at least partly your fault for not helping them enough

in fact I'm not even sure what other reading of your post is even possible

and, I don't know, that does kind of seem like a really fucked up position to take

[(Anonymous)]

It's a pretty common one, though.