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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-01 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2979 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2979 ⌋

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tw self-harm + suicide

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel for you. I've had someone pull similar shit on me in the past and it sucked majorly. In my case, the person in question dragged me into some drama she was having with a mutual friend. The mutual friend had stopped talking to her, and she told me that if I didn't make the friend talk to her again, she'd kill herself. When I ignored her message, she started making threads all over the forum about how I was a terrible person who wanted her to kill herself.

Sad thing is that a lot of people actually took her side. No one really thought I actively wanted her to kill herself, but they did seem to think that I was being a dick and had somehow wronged her. The worst part is that at the time I was self-harming a lot (mostly unrelated to the drama) and having a lot of suicidal thoughts, which obviously made it even more unpleasant to receive suicide threats from someone. I ended up leaving the forum, which was probably for the best. Even though there's no way it was my fault, I spent so much time being afraid that I really was responsible for her declining mental health that the forum wasn't fun anymore.

My only suggestion would be to delete and remake, but to connect your new blog to a different RP group. I hope you end up finding a better solution.

Re: tw self-harm + suicide

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Jeez if they all took her side that sounds like a shitty forum. You're not responsible for someone else's mental health. Glad you got outta there.

Re: tw self-harm + suicide

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I am too. I brought it up in part because OP mentions that their Excessive Questioner is part of their RP group, and it just seems to me like even if it's a fun group, there might be something rotten in it if they tolerate EQ's behavior towards OP.