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fandomsecrets2015-03-10 07:09 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-03-10 07:09 pm
[ SECRET POST #2988 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2988 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 050 secrets from Secret Submission Post #427.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2015-03-11 12:21 am (UTC)(link)Now you come clean and say even your "they were using her OC without permission" theory is bullshit because before that, they freely exchanged OCs with no problem.
Sounds like this secret is all about you putting down these people for no reason at all. Friends sometimes grow apart. So what? But no, these people aren't saints whom you could put on a pedesrsl and aspire to so now they must be demons.
Grow up.
OP
(Anonymous) 2015-03-11 12:30 am (UTC)(link)She made a blog post being vague about the affair, the ex-friends popped up in the comments and got angry at her. She replied that they used her OC in a story she wasn't comfortable with, insinuated that she did ask them before including their OCs in her stories, and when she said they were not as considerate with her as she was with them, they called her immature and left acting like they had the higher ground.
I did not go into this much detail in the secret because it was already full of text as it was, and because I was trying to not let slip details that could help track down the people in question.
Re: OP
I have to admit that's a very fair reason to be upset. It sounds like the friends aren't respecting her feelings about it. I mean it's better to be upfront than vaguely complaining which might look like barely disguised bitching and slamming someone.
Ideally she should confront her friend about it from the beginning and be honest. and if her friend is any kind of friend they'd listen to her feelings and consider them rather than blowing her off and telling her to get over it essentially.
/ has been in the middle of enough friend drama to see what's happening here.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2015-03-12 12:07 am (UTC)(link)no subject
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2015-03-11 06:55 am (UTC)(link)Acting immature and claiming the higher ground just because someone asked them to be considerate does seem to speak of a deeper issue that just the OP thing though.
It sounds as though there was discord on that level in general -- you don't get THAT pissed off and angry at a friend for ONE instance of not being considerate. You get that way after a long pattern of behavior that's manifested in many more ways than just this one OC transgression.
It sounds like there was a whole lot more than that going on behind the scenes, OP.