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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-10 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2988 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2988 ⌋

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Re: Favorite lyrics

(Anonymous) 2015-03-11 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
"You are what you love / not who loves you" - from Fall Out Boy's "Save Rock and Roll".

I've spent the past year slowly realizing that my mother is a truly terrible person, and that she doesn't actually see me when she looks at me; she sees the version of me she concocted in her head before I was born (straight, cis female, college-educated, perfect mental health, cheerful and energetic). I'm slowly working towards getting out permanently, but managing her shittiness while not letting slip that I'll be cutting contact before I'm financially stable is exhausting. It's a good reminder that while she may love me (or what she wants me to be), I'm not worth any less because I'm not that person, and her feelings reflect only on her, not on me.