[ SECRET POST #2993 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Comments

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

I honestly don't know what my sexual orientation is. It's at an uncomfortable crossroad of bi, gay, and asexual (pretty gay, but rare feelings over guys, but pretty numb towards the idea of being in a relationship or having sex) and I'm worried that the asexuality is either medication fucking over my sexual drive or nervousness I've never truly grown out of.

Re: confessions thread

[elaminator]

Probably easier said than done, but try not to worry about it too much? Maybe you'll figure it out one day, but as long as you enjoy your life it doesn't have to be a big deal.

If one day you decide you want to be in a relationship or have sex you can always give it a shot, but until then it's okay to let things be. Sexuality can be quite confusing.

Re: confessions thread

[nyxelestia]

Eh, I don't really know what mine is, either, and I've hit the point where I just don't care. I say "bisexual" as a catch-all term because most people aren't too familiar with the intricacies of sexuality and different labels, and in reality my 'tastes' are very inconclusive and nonsensical (and sometimes irrelevant - I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend, but we make it work), but honestly, so what? These days, it's just a person-by-person basis for me.

Re: confessions thread

[kallanda_lee]

It can be. I was pretty much "asexual" for a few years (but didn't identify as such) because I was too depressed to actually have room for those feelings. I wasn't really sure what I was (which funnily enough, is probably closest to plain old straight) until like...early 20's?

You don't have to know right now, you don't have to pin it down, and if you do you can still change your mind.

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

You sound like you'd be a bi-leaning dyke (can I say dyke? I'm'a say dyke) if not for meds, which are depressing, or suppressing your sex drive. So you're just sort of sexually suppressed.

That's pretty common these days, thanks to overprescription of anti-depressants.

Maybe sexuality labels are kind of goofy, until you really want to be in a relationship.

Re: confessions thread

[diet_poison]

Now I'm curious as to how many people have experienced antidepressants messing with their sex drive, and which meds they take if they do. I've taken sertraline for 4-5 years now and have not noticed a thing.

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

Same, only I've taken it for over a decade.

Re: confessions thread

[cloud_riven]

Labels. Pffft whatever man. Like nyx, I'm more of a person-by-person thing since my sexuality had never been consistent depending on where I am in life. My teens would have been the perfectly equal opportunity bi time because I was Randy and rather desperate all the time tbh. Then there was the gay only stage. These days it turns I'm still pretty bi/pan. And honestly? Labels, for me, are more for explaining something in easier terms for me and others. I'm not tied to them.

Point is, try not to let what you are now stress you into thinking you have to pigeon hole yourself.