[ SECRET POST #2993 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Comments

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

i absolutely love my partner, but every once in a while I'm tempted to just sort of pack up and walk off. like, I really can't for a number of reasons, and we have a good relationship, just.

I had a big patch of my life where I really didn't have options at all, and my relationship with him is the one big good thing that got me through it. and I love him, he's got a streak of clingy. but I feel like I haven't lived because I never had a choice, and I want to go explore the things I couldn't.

but I would never want to hurt him.

it's just weird in my head sometimes. I'm happy... but there's a big world.

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

It's really normal to feel like you're missing out. Pretty much all my friends who are in long relationships feel that way.

Re: confessions thread

[kallanda_lee]

No, I feel exactly the same. I think it's partly because I'm very much an individualist, and even in a couple I don't really see myself as part of a union or whatever.I'm wording it wrong, I think. But a relationship was never my goal, just something hat happens along the way, but by it's very nature it can limit you in some ways.

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

sa

well, I got married a good while back, and I can't financially survive on my own right now, so it's all sort of moot. but yeah, I have a big-ass individual streak mixed in with a bunch of other messiness and I just worry I'm going to wander into a big mistake at some point in my life.

I'm happy, but hell.

Re: confessions thread

[diet_poison]

What is it that you can't explore because of your partner? Are you just talking about other relationships? Or are there other things? Is there anything you two could do together?

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

sa

man, I don't even know sometimes. relationships is part of it, and what I worry I'll screw up if I had a chance - not cheating, you know? I'm not interested in cheating on him. just... like, if I found my own footing and got my own stability, would I end up trying to break it off, not because I don't love him, but because I want to go explore?

I feel like I'm missing something, mostly.

as for things we could do together, part of the problem is we do EVERYTHING TOGETHER. I'm individualistic. he's clingy. I can't even get him to just go fuck off by himself for twenty minutes when we're at a renfaire or something because he'll, like, wilt or something. heh.

Re: confessions thread

[diet_poison]

Maybe his clinginess is just exhausting you?

I wish I could say more to help - I tend to be more...not really clingy (I hope), but definitely liking to spend time with my partner (when I have one), do romantic things, stuff like that. Have you talked to him and told him it's really important that you have you-time? That can be really sticky, I know...

Re: confessions thread

[(Anonymous)]

I think that's some of it; he's out of town on business right now and I know he's miserable, but I'm doing fine. I enjoy it, the only downside is we're really rural atm for his work and it's been a rotten winter and it's hard to get out and do different things.

It's something we work on, yeah. All your advice is solid. :) I just worry what could happen in the future, cause that's how I do.