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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-20 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2998 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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sarillia: (Default)

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-03-20 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Not being threatened by other women talking to him is a good thing.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-20 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that would be the case if OP was coming from a place of having matured and overcome jealousy. But it doesn't sound like that's the situation here, so I'm not sure if that's still true.
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[personal profile] sarillia 2015-03-20 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Even if the reason behind it is something for the OP to try to change, I still see the lack of jealousy as a good thing in itself.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-20 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
this - it's a sign of emotional maturity

(Anonymous) 2015-03-20 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

It would be if, as other anon pointed out, OP lacked jealousy out of security and acceptance.

They lack jealousy out of sheer complacency. Not the same thing.

It's like saying "My house is so crappy and rundown I don't have to worry about burglars", not "I've ensured my house is secure and protected so I don't have to worry about burglars."

(OP)

(Anonymous) 2015-03-20 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm no, I've never been jealous of him around other women. He can have whatever friends he wants; I know he's coming home with me. The reachers/settlers episode just made me think/worry hey, I wonder if that's why?

Re: (OP)

(Anonymous) 2015-03-21 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
My point (or, I guess, my reading of the secret, since this is what I thought you were originally saying) was that your lack of jealousy came specifically from something about your BF, not because you had reached the point of not being jealous in relationships

Sorry for the confusion
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[personal profile] making_excuses 2015-03-21 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Is jealousy really something you have to have mature and overcome for it to be real?

I have never ever in my life been jealous of my partners, not for the same reasons as the OP, but I trust them to not cheat on me. If they do, what would have my jealousy prevented?