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⌈ Secret Post #2998 ⌋

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I'll stop bitching about Tumblr when Tumblr stops giving me reasons to bitch about it. I'll stop treating it like a hivemind when it stops acting like such a damn hivemind, which will be never, because that's how social media sites tend to function.

Also, "being specific about people who are annoying us" is the king of crappy ideas. If it's petty wank you're worried about, naming names is the fastest method to stir up shit.

If it's poor little Tumblr's feels~ you're worried about, then lol. Pretty much every website bitches about Tumblr. Tumblr bitches about Tumblr. It's the same for Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, 4Chan, Imgur, etc. Shockingly, you are not the first F!S user to bitch about other F!S users. Websites blow off steam by bitching about stupid crap, including themselves and each other. Welcome to the internet.

I don't give a shit about tumblr

I'd like less pointless, bitter slapfights on F!S tho

Pointless, bitter slapfights is how people given anonymity usually end up communicating. Most of us are working adults who have a lot daily stress we need to get out, and we probably end up taking most of it out on each other over petty crap.

But then it's over and we're moving on to the next thing, because the fight was stupid and no one really gave a shit in the long run.

See, if I get home from work, and I feel like bitching about a dumb blogging site, I can do that. If someone else decides they want to defend that dumb blogging site, they can do that. We'll bitch at each other for a few hours, which helps both of us to get out all that pent up anger we've had to hold in all day. Being anonymous gives us the privilege of being able to act like complete children and throw tantrums. It's nice.

I'm honestly fond of everyone on here, even the ones I've had swearing matches with, because they've helped me get out a lot of stress in the past. I love all of you rotten bastards. Even you, dethtoll! (Although I'd probably steal your dog, sorry.)

Again, I mostly feel the same way.

My concern is that these feelings are not universally shared, and I'd prefer not to worry about driving off posters that I like who don't happen to share those preferences

So be the change you want to see in the world, Anon!

Don't be overly bitchy. If someone's getting dog-piled, say something nice then or later. Let people know when you agree with them. Submit some happy secrets so we can have friendly discussions. (Like that Spyro secret the other day. It cheered me up!)

Bitching about people bitching isn't going to change anything. If you want people to have a nicer, more accepting attitude, then you've gotta be the one to spread it. Hard work, sorry, but it's pretty much the only way.

That probably sounded sarcastic, so here's the disclaimer: not sarcastic.

that's fair enough

if i'm honest, this is probably influenced at least in part by me being very anxious about some non-fandom stuff atm

Hey, I know that feel. Anxiety sucks. I'm sorry, Anon. Virtual hug?

Better yet, here's a great masterpost of happy and calming things from Tumblr (http://these-dandelion-wishes.tumblr.com/post/86103978811/anxiety-panic-masterpost). As much as I bitch about those guys, I gotta say, they make some really snazzy masterposts.

Oh, and here's a goat dressed up as Elsa from Frozen (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdJR58uDtXk).

Again, sorry about the non-fandom drama. I hope you can work out whatever's giving you anxiety. Good luck, buddy!

da

This is a healthier view of anonymous fights on f!s than the one I had.

Thanks for making me like this comm even more!

No problem, Anon! I've been angry at people on here, but I've never hated anybody, because hating someone over the dumb crap we argue about on here would be really, really dumb. Mega dumb.

We're all frenemies here! The internet is a beautiful creation!

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