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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-20 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2998 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: OP again

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-21 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
Don't record your voice. You'll only obsess over it and it'll make you even more nervous when you're out trying to be social next time.

Just accept that you're going to say weird things or make social faux pas from time to time and that just about everyone else on the planet isn't going to hold it against you as long as you can laugh it off and it wasn't mean-spirited or excessively racist or misogynist. Everyone, even the most social people out there, say weird things from time to time. Hell, the most extroverted person I know says some of the weirdest things out of anyone but she's still the most successful at making friends because she laughs at herself whenever she does it.

Learn to chill out and not worry too much about being perfect at holding a conversation. People are human, so we tend to give each other a bit of slack in that regard.

I'm sure it's been pointed out before, but like anything being social is a learned skill. It's performance, on some level. The more you do it the better you get at building a public persona, and the more you practice the more comfortable you feel about doing it. Just get out there and get some practice.