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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-03 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3012 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3012 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2015-04-04 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I see where you come from. My better half was abused as a teen and because of that I was ashamed for getting off on dubcon slash for a long time. But eventually I came clean and after discussing many sides of it, and us, I've learned that it's more too it than me profiting from his hurt. That might be woven in, because there's crossing lines, but we've found that the details of my kinks and what he has to carry around has little to do with each other. Which is a relief of course. But we wouldn't have known if we hadn't talked about it in a scarily honest way.

And any way, we like what we like and must find ways to help each other get that. Fantasizing is not the same as doing. (This can't be stated often enough, it seems.) Think forward: what's done is done and we must carry the baggage we have regardless. If you care about being respectful, you probably are.