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fandomsecrets2015-04-21 06:41 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-04-21 06:41 pm
[ SECRET POST #3030 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3030 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #433.
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Re: Unleash your anxieties here!
Talking about palliative care is hard, because you're just never really ready for it. My mum wasn't either at the time, and she was in denial about ending treatment and kept saying she would start again when she got her strength back. I think I was in denial as well, because even when I was helping her sit up to eat and drink, I still couldn't believe she wouldn't get better or there wouldn't be more time.
She was my best friend, and she raised me, and she was the only person in my family I was really close to. It's just awful beyond any words to watch someone you love get sick like this.
I wish I could say something to make this easier for you. I should know what to say, but then I think about it and nothing anyone said to me really made it better. I'm here if you want to talk though, even if it's just venting about doctors being idiots or that person who keeps taking a piece out of the puzzles in the waiting room in the oncology ward so you can't finish them.