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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-06 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #3045 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3045 ⌋

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[personal profile] intrigueing 2015-05-06 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
It really depends on the person. People tend to be suspicious of loners because they assume they are loners because they are awful people who nobody likes to be around, or misanthropes with no interest in other people. It's just typical tribal behavior. The downside of associating with anti-social assholes outweighed the benefits of accepting people who just happened to like being on their own.

Also, you can have friends without being a "prolonged contact multiple times a week" sort of set up. There are a lot of different ways to have friends. Friendship is a very flexible type of relationship.

(Anonymous) 2015-05-07 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
It's really a shame people think loners are misanthropes when a lot of the time they are just shy and would feel rude joining in with others or asking to hang out. I remember that's how I was in middle school. I was the new girl and I wasn't even given a chance because I was shy and quiet so everyone just assumed I liked being alone so they left me alone.

Since I spent my middle school alone it kinda made me prefer being alone even after I had made friends.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2015-05-07 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
Since I spent my middle school alone it kinda made me prefer being alone even after I had made friends.

I can relate. I was alone for a while due to a long period of frequent family moves when I was in junior high. It took me a while to get out of the habit of being a loner even though I wanted to make friends.