[ SECRET POST #3047 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3047 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Suzanne from Orange is the New Black]


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[Soul Caliber V]


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(Rick and Morty)


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[Love The Way You Lie - Eminem feat. Rihanna]


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[Bones]


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11. [SPOILERS for Grimm]
[WARNING for rape]



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12. [WARNING for rape]

[Eddie Murphy, Bill Cosby]


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13. [WARNING for incest/underage]



























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Comments

Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

Go wild, kiddies, mine below.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

I am forced to keep in contact with one of the most poisonous people I've ever met because if I don't, I'll lost contact with my teenaged, severely mentally ill cousin, which I only just got back after three years, and which is so so important to me.

TL;DR family's a shitshow, I'm exhausted, can't Righteously Cut Loose from some nasty folks

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

aggggghhhhh

ahahahaha

*soblaugh*

I so feel you. I was contact-free until the poisonous relative in my life literally decided to reach up from the depths of Hell and attempt to drag me down there with them POST MORTEM if you please. I am endlessly falling down the rabbit hole that conveniently doubles as the seventh circle of Hell. It is deep and it is dark and it does not end in Wonderland. D-:

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[caerbannog]

I'm glad you're back in contact with your cousin but i'm sorry it's at the price of such a horrible person :C

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[lb_lee]

Oof, I been there. That's rough, buddy.

--Rogan

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

*hugs* I'm sorry. I understand the whole 'being related to toxic people'... haven't yet felt trapped for the sake of someone else, though. That sounds awful. You have my sympathies.

A rant for another site I'm on

[feotakahari]

Can we please permaban the creepy fetishist? He just got back from his second temp-ban, and he already got a thread locked by trying to pick a fight with one of the most rational and reasonable posters on the site. He keeps hardening in his belief that he's bringing positive representation of strong black women, so anyone who criticizes his writing must be a troll or an evil SJW who's taking advantage of his anxiety disorder and trying to make him kill himself. (At least now that he never apologizes, he no longer blames his Asperger's for making him an asshole, but you'd think a self-identified white guy would eventually question why black writers don't like how he writes black people.)

Also, the more extreme of the two fundamentalists is starting to sound like an angel in a Shin Megami Tensei game, but at least she's polite in her creepiness.

Re: A rant for another site I'm on

[(Anonymous)]

Livejournal or TheForce.net?

Re: A rant for another site I'm on

[feotakahari]

Neither, but it's more similar to the latter in format.

Re: A rant for another site I'm on

[lb_lee]

Ugh, fetishists who think that their wank fodder makes them enlightened are such a PAIN.

--Rogan

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[badass_tiger]

I've mentioned my insensitive friend who I recently recontacted before. It's fortunate I waited til I didn't care very much whether or not she cares about me to talk to her because she's starting to drive me up the wall again already. I'd so much rather she just leave me alone but I've tried telling her maybe thrice that I'd feel better if I were alone (from everyone, not just her) but she always tries to talk to me again after a couple of weeks which is why I tried giving in. So far she has yet to show me she's worth the effort.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

Time to do the slow fade. You tried and found out she wasn't worth the effort. Cut your losses, man.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

My mother in law is in her 60s and can't drive. This wouldn't be a big deal if we lived in a city with adequate public transportation, but we don't. The bus system isn't great, but that and walking are her only options if nobody is available to give her a ride. She did take a few driving lessons once with the hope of getting her license, but gave up after two tries because it was too scary. AND YET she takes it for granted whenever someone has to drive her somewhere. She has NO concept of what a pain in the ass it is to deal with traffic, construction, etc. and gets sulky if nobody wants to volunteer to cart her ass all over town.

And guess what? She just moved into a new apartment building with shitty bus connections and very little within walking distance. WTF, lady? This whole not-driving thing isn't new, why the hell did you pick a place where there aren't any grocery stores nearby? Who am I kidding, I know why she did it. She did it because she thinks that because it's a little closer to us, WE will drive her wherever she wants. She's got an unpleasant surprise coming...

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

Wow. I don't drive either, but I can't fathom putting people out like that. :( And yet a lot of people do. Whatever the reason you have for not driving sucks, deal with it rather than expecting other people to put their lives completely on hold.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[philstar22]

Stupid UPS. They usually come between 3 and 4. Only this week not so much. So Wednesday, I got home at 2:15 and they'd already come. So I had to get those packages sent to the UPS store to pick up for 6 dollars. Then, today, I stayed home all day waiting for him and he showed up at 6PM. I could have gone to work.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

UGH! I hate when that happens.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[philstar22]

It gets worse. The important package, the one with my bar review materials, the one I paid $6 to get them to send to the store, was returned to sender after the driver supposedly attempted to deliver to my home again Thursday, leaving no note.

And when I called customer service to complain, they hung up on me.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

Going to visit the Aged P's is basically submitting to house arrest for the duration. My mother hates to see anyone leave the house. Because the world outside her door is dark and full of terrors or something--and she's one of those people who can't accept that their grown children are grown. There's no going out of the house, even for a walk or to pick up some groceries, without presenting a closely-argued case for why it's necessary to do something so dangerous, and listening to a lot of objections and manipulative pissing and moaning.

The worst of it is, I'm about to spend 4 weeks there, but no matter how long I spend at home, it's never enough for Mom--she always wants to know when I'm going to come home to live permanently. I mean, why would I want to live anyplace else?

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[belladonna_took]

I can relate. My nan doesn't like me getting the train by myself when I visit her. Flying there by myself was okay, but getting the train on my own (which I do at home, and have done since I was a kid) is too dangerous?

Also walking anywhere after sunset, because that's when people get murdered.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

You've got to put your foot down, then. If you want to go for a walk, tell her you're going for a walk and will be back by a certain time and then go. Don't hang around or get into a discussion and try to reason with her about why it's safe, that's a delaying tactic. Just kiss her on the cheek, tell her you love her and you'll see her when you get back. Get into the habit of running useful errands. ("I'm going to the store, do you need anything?)

Trust me when I say that by giving in, you're only reinforcing her worldview that the world is dangerous and she's doing the Right Thing by protecting you from it. You're going to have to train (for lack of a better word) your mother to accept that this is a normal activity and reasonably safe and the more times you demonstrate that you can go out and nothing happened to you, the more normal it will seem to her.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, are you my sibling?

I'm getting pressured more and more to stop my silly adventures in apartment living (because god forbid I ever become independent and LIVE my LIFE like I'm my own person) and move back in with parent, because parent is SOOOO LONELY, SO LONELY, yet can't be bothered to reach out to anybody else to come live with her.

I can certainly sympathize, but I'd probably be more open to the idea if I wasn't sure that the moment I moved back in, the house rules would change back to me paying over half the living expenses, doing well over half the house chores AND not having the freedom to do what I want. And even then, I don't trust someone who violated WAY too many boundaries when I was growing up, blamed me for all her adult problems, but gets to act the saint now and tell me my soul needs to be saved because I don't fill the same church visit quota she does. Fuck that shit, I deserve WAY better. Hell, I think anyone does.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

my mother (and my girlfriend but this rant is about my mom) spent months telling me to get therapy for what is probably an undiagnosed mental illness. I reluctantly agreed about a month ago. I haven't gone yet (going after the semester is over though, so soon, once I find someone) but now my mom has suddenly changed tones, and is telling me it won't work for me and they're just going to drug me, and if I ever express any nervousness about going she says I have a bad attitude and won't put up with me whining. I'm already scared of the idea and this is honestly not helping.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[feotakahari]

My mother calls this crazy-making. Whichever option you pick, they'll say you should have chosen the other option, because it's not really about you and your feelings, it's about feeding their ego.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

"Mom, I know you're only trying to help but all this talk is scaring me and making me feel worse. I don't want to talk about it anymore."

And then gently nip any attempt to discuss it in the bud."Yes, I'm aware of your concerns and I will take that into consideration. But as I said, I really don't want to discuss this." Then change the subject.

Lastly, I hope you do see a therapist, anon. Undiagnosed illnesses are frightening, it's true, but often not knowing is worse because your imagination fills in all sorts of horrors. The sooner you find a sympathetic therapist, the sooner you'll figure out what, if anything, is going on and what to do about it. Good luck to you.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[dahli]

I'm just so tired, man. So, so tired. And so stressed. One part of me thinks "Who cares, I'm gonna get fired in a couple of months" while the other is "No, you gotta stay you gotta fight for this job". And the third part is like "FEH" at everything. SOB. Why do I have to be the newbie at work.

And I keep comparing myself to the previous person in my positio who was 18 years there. Ugh. Just end me now.