[ SECRET POST #3049 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Comments

Re: TMI thread

[(Anonymous)]

I have asked myself many of these questions, and my answer is that I do want to be married to him. I want to raise a family together. I think our outlooks, and interests and feelings and basically everything is very compatible. I am happy when we are together and I never get tired of being with him. I don't really have the energy to go into everything but literally everything about him is great and if not for worrying about the sex thing I wouldn't even be debating about it.

I don't know if I am attracted because I don't know how attraction feels like.

Re: TMI thread

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I think a better question here, then, would be to consider the worst case scenario. If it turns out you don't enjoy sex and aren't attracted to him but he enjoys sex and is attracted to you, are you willing to put up with having sex for his sake?

On his side, would he be willing to accept that you're having sex for his sake and not because you enjoy it yourself? Some people have problems with that also, if their partner isn't getting anything out of it.

Re: TMI thread

[(Anonymous)]

I am thinking of these questions a lot. I hope it won't come to that.

Re: TMI thread

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I'd suggest finding out before you get married, so you don't have to go through a messy legal situation.

Finding out, not only talking about, because people who swear they'll be okay with something can also be wrong about themselves.

Re: TMI thread

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know if I am attracted because I don't know how attraction feels like.

For what it's worth, that's exactly how I feel, and I consider myself asexual. I figure I must not have ever felt it if I can't even identify what (sexual) attraction is. I've definitely been emotionally attracted to people, drawn to their personalities, wanting to get to know them more and spend time with them, and aesthetically attracted (they're nice to look at, but it's like how you can enjoy looking at a painting but not want to have sex with it). The most common explanation of sexual attraction I've come across is "looking at/being around someone and having the desire to have sex with them", and that's something that's never happened to me.

Maybe it will someday, who knows what the future holds, but I'm almost 30 and it hasn't yet so I figure asexual fits for me.