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⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

I'm currently judging myself a bit as I sort of want my grandmother to go to a home so my sister and I can sublet her apartment :|

To expand on this so I hopefully sound a bit less awful, my 80 yo grandmother's health has been waning lately, mostly mentally, and today, according to my sister who lives with her atm, she peed herself. This had been going on for a while, but even more rapidly the last few months. Honestly, I think she would be better of with care available, not to mention a more social environment as since my grandpa died almost 10 years ago, she's had next to no social life at all. Homes are also generally very good in my city and she would most likely be in one close to her home. Apparently she has been talking about admitting herself to one, but my dad thinks that's mostly for pity points though.

She lives in a huge flat (5 bedrooms) in the most popular neighbourhood in my city for super cheap, and my sister and I could both easily pay what she currently pays, so she would effectively even earn money on it while we could still have enough to save.

I honestly feel bad about feeling this, but I really don't think she can live (mostly) on her own if it continues like it does now, and it is driving my sister crazy living with her like she does now, so I don't think she would last for much longer if this keeps getting worse. If my sister and I were to take over there we could help fix-up the place, and there would still be a place where the family could celebrate Christmas and such. But, yeah, it's not something I feel good about thinking :/

Apparently this was also something I really needed to get off my heart it seems!