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⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Comments

Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

We've had threads about judging other people, but what about the things you judge yourself for?

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[feotakahari]

Coming off too strong with all the feminist stuff. I worry that I'm just pushing people away.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Sometimes being lazy and throwing stuff that could be recycled in the trash. :(

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Wanting a social life but not wanting to do anything that would allow me to have one.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[dani_phantasma]

Being too over-enthusiastic and talkative about my interests. It's a thing I'm working on toning down on, though.

On the same token sometimes I judge myself when I try to talk and socialize with people but I can shake it off. Getting practice at work has been helping me.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Being considered unattractive.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Being hairy as fuck
Stressing out about getting stuff done but never actually doing it (unless I have to at the last minute)
Being almost 24 and never having been in a relationship or had sex
Worrying about money so much when I'm far better off than most people thanks to mommy and daddy
Having no friends
Randomly (though quite often) thinking about killing myself even though I know I'd never do just because I like to feel sorry for myself even though I have no real problems
Wasting so much money on food

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Most recently, eating an entire pizza in one sitting lol

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[kallanda_lee]

Not being able to keep my promises.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Judging other artists for sucking when I'm not willing to put the effort in myself.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

I judge myself for saying/doing/thinking stupid shit. Especially when there has been at least one witness to it.

I also judge myself for an inability to remain objective at times (even though I know this is impossible to do).

I judge myself for sometimes getting a little too caught up in fantasies, things that are impossible, because I've been trying to escape a horrible life these last few decades, and that has been my method of coping for way too long.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Fantasizing about underage characters ...

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

My constant lowgrade simmering anger, and my flash in the pan, destroy-every-relationship temper.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[dahli]

EVERYTHING.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Every time I hear something new being discussed in feminist circles, my gut instinct is fight it. I try to follow the party line, I swear I do, but it all just feels wrong. Because I think deep down I am a misogynist

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[caerbannog]

Not saying No often enough and not telling people when they've crossed a line.

*frowns at self* Say No...and tell them off for crossing a line!

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[intrigueing]

Fandom: Getting resentful of people being "LOL HOW COULD THEY POSSIBLY NOT BE IN LOVE" about their non-canon ships.

It's so stupid and thin-skinned of me. I keep telling myself I really only have cause to be resentful if they actually attack non-shippers -- otherwise mild irritation at seeing it everywhere is the most severe negative reaction I'm entitled to. But it's not just mild irritation. It bothers me enough to start disliking fans I know who do it, and IMO it really, really, really shouldn't bother me that much.

Real Life: procrastination. My procrastination levels are truly idiotic and I'd probably judge the hell out of anyone else I saw procrastinating this stupidly (if they didn't have reasonable causes for it like diagnosed anxiety or depression -- which I do not have.)

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

not caring when people get told to kill themselves over the internet

imo they need to grow a thicker skin

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

My anxiety.

Adding "disorder" to it doesn't make it feel any less a personal failing.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

how much I let my depression fuck with me. Toughen up self.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[comma_chameleon]

Not getting a lot of stuff done around the flat as much as I'd like because I know I'll pay for it by being in pain later/the next day.

Even if it's stuff I know I need to do, like tidy or cook. .___.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Everything, unless I'm on anti-depressants

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

I'm that person who only watches new canons/joins new fandoms for shipping reasons.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

That I haven't followed the "standard path" of 'get married, buy a house, have babies'. I don't want that, but I judge myself for not wanting it.

Also, working for my family's business instead of having a "real" job. It's not one of those situations where I "work" but basically get paid for doing nothing; I work harder than I ever have at a job before, and have been told repeatedly that I'm integral to the business and it wouldn't exist without me. But I still feel like it's the kind of thing that has a negative connotation in society in general, so I judge myself for it.

Re: Things you judge yourself for

[(Anonymous)]

Being asexual, since it's seen as not real/a joke/a SJW or special snowflake thing.