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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-29 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3068 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3068 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy]


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02.
[Wild Kratts]


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03.
[Harry Potter/Fleur Delacour]


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04.
[Jennifer Barkley from Parks&Recreation]


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07.
[Handa-kun]


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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for child molestation]



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10. [WARNING for mental illness/suicide]

[It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini]


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11. [WARNING for rape]













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Re: Advice?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-29 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Set those boundaries again, and enforce them this time. Be gentle, but firm and do NOT give in. You cannot help your friend by giving her all your time and attention because you could devote 24 hours a day to her and it won't be enough. If your friend is still a minor/living with her parents, notify her parents that she needs more help. If you can't get in touch with them, a school counselor.

If she hints at suicide or threatens to kill herself, ask her if she needs you to call 911. BUT DO NOT GIVE IN TO HER DEMANDS. Putting some space between you two in the form of setting healthy boundaries is what you both need, and her actions are not your fault in any way.