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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-29 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3068 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3068 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy]


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02.
[Wild Kratts]


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03.
[Harry Potter/Fleur Delacour]


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04.
[Jennifer Barkley from Parks&Recreation]


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[Handa-kun]


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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for child molestation]



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10. [WARNING for mental illness/suicide]

[It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini]


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11. [WARNING for rape]













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Re: Advice?

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-05-30 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Well I think everyone else is right in that you need to take care of yourself too, but if you aren't comfortable cutting her out of your life then you need to be firm about how much time you can spend with her. If you never have any time to yourself and feel like you're on call all the time, you're going to be exhausted and miserable, and she probably isn't going to be able to make much progress.

So maybe tell her that you won't have as much time to spend with her, but you want her to know it doesn't mean you won't be around or that you don't care? Some distance will probably help both of you, even if it'll be unpleasant for her at first.

You can't control or be responsible for her actions though, so don't go there. It won't help, and it isn't fair to yourself.