[ SECRET POST #3068 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3068 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy]


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02.
[Wild Kratts]


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03.
[Harry Potter/Fleur Delacour]


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04.
[Jennifer Barkley from Parks&Recreation]


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07.
[Handa-kun]


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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for child molestation]



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10. [WARNING for mental illness/suicide]

[It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini]


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11. [WARNING for rape]













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Comments

Re: need advice...:/

[(Anonymous)]

I'd advise you to talk to her about it only if you hadn't already tried that. However, you have, and it hasn't worked. There's no magical words to make your friend not act like a douche. Either you step up the deleting, or gentle public reprimands ("Dude, my grandma can see this comment" or "Come on man, this isn't tumblr."

But what I don't understand is why you haven't started filtering your posts? You do know you can create lists on Facebook and then filter every post you make so only people on those lists can see it, right? You can also exclude people. From now on, try posting stuff excluding your friend. Or if you're feeling kind, post stuff that only she can see, so that your family, co-workers, etc. won't see her stupid comments.

But honestly, I'd just unfriend her. You two don't really have a friendship if this is all you have, and nothing you've described here sounds like a relationship worth holding on to. If she throws a tantrum, don't shy away from telling her why you had to do it. Tell her you've talked with her before about not leaving inappropriate comments and she hasn't listened so this is your only option. Letting douchebags remain in your life causing trouble because you're afraid of "drama" is dumb. You already have drama of her making.