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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-29 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3068 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3068 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy]


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02.
[Wild Kratts]


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03.
[Harry Potter/Fleur Delacour]


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04.
[Jennifer Barkley from Parks&Recreation]


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07.
[Handa-kun]


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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for child molestation]



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10. [WARNING for mental illness/suicide]

[It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini]


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11. [WARNING for rape]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #438.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: need advice...:/

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-05-30 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
If you haven't, be blunt. Now is the time for that. Tell her honestly that people have been asking questions, that it makes a very bad impression, that it's unprofessional and could have negative repercussions for you professionally, etc.

If she pitches a fit, then maybe she's not worth keeping in contact with. And if she says she'll do better, but doesn't, then stick to your guns and unfriend her, or unfilter her from everything (I've never done it but other anon's suggestion is a good one if you can get it to work).

I don't know what the situation with your friends and family is, but it sounds like it may cause less drama to unfriend than to allow the embarrassing and inappropriate remarks to continue.