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⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋

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[Eurovision]

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[Captain America]

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14. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]

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15. [SPOILERS for Age of Ultron]

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16. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and DragonFable]

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17. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)

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18. [WARNING for incest]

[A Redtail's Dream]

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19. [WARNING for rape]

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Tell her. You're already aware that this sort of thing requires heavy policing, and if it's getting to the point where the boyfriend's dependence isn't being met by whatever he is using to control it, then that's pertinent information and not something to keep from her.

This situation usually winds up with the person in question stealing valuables and leaving or being kicked out. It's generally best to address it before it comes to that point.

DA

Agreed. If I were her, I'd rather know than have it kept from me. I've personally just had too many instances where secrets meant to protect me came back to bite me in the ass.

We are doing something this weekend. Should I wait until afterwards so as to not sour the experience?

That's probably advisable, yes. At any rate, pick a time where everyone is sitting down and relatively sedate to break the news, and try to be as impartial as possible about it. Also, be prepared for the possibility that she will get emotional or that some denial will be involved in the exchange; try not to overreact to it or take it personally if that happens.

Just remember that telling her this is going to be better for her in the long term than in the short term.

Also would it be better to have Sister B tell her since she was the one who spoke with coworker?

If it's possible you might want to have her along with you when you decide to tell her, but it's not strictly necessary. Do make sure she knows what you are going to do before you share that information, though.

The best person to actually do the talking is the person who is most comfortable with doing it, though.

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