[ SECRET POST #3075 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Spy]


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[Eurovision]


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[Captain America]


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14. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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15. [SPOILERS for Age of Ultron]



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16. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and DragonFable]



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17. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)


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18. [WARNING for incest]

[A Redtail's Dream]


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: I wish I came out earlier.

[(Anonymous)]

:(

Um, first of all, that sucks, and I'm sorry.

Second, obviously I don't know you that well, but solely from my experience on the Internet, you're a fucking rad-ass person, so you do have that going for you vis-a-vis dating.

Third... I have to say, it kind of sounds like most of your problems here are of the "what will people think" variety. And at some point, I think the only answer is to decide how much you actually care about that. Because, yeah, maybe people will think all this weird shit about you - I don't think it's likely, especially if you explain it like this, but maybe they will. But I guess the question is, would you rather be in a relationship with some nice girl, and have people think that, what, you had a dysfunctional relationship - or would you rather be where you are now? That's mostly how it seems to me, anyway.

Um. I hope that's not unwelcome. And I really hope you figure things out. FWIW I definitely know where you're coming from and can sympathize very hard from my own situation, so you're not alone either.

Re: I wish I came out earlier.

[chardmonster]

It's weird. I don't give a damn what randos think, but I do care very much what people I care about think. I'm worried about my parents being grossed out--I know they'd never disown me--but I don't want to damage the relationship just so I feel slightly better when they aren't around.

Having them or friends be "oh that poor mistreated guy" about The Guy would kill me. My mom goes on about how people who come out or transition after having being in straight relationships are selfish, and having her think that about me--about this past relationship--would be a fucking huge slap in the face. I kept quiet for that relationship.

It's not unwelcome! Thanks actually. I hope your situation gets better too.