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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-06 04:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #3076 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3076 ⌋

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Re: Rants thread

(Anonymous) 2015-06-07 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
I know people mean well but I wish they would stop saying "go see a doctor/psychologist/therapist" over and over again as though it's the answer to all of life's problems.

For some of us, it's simply not in the cards - we can't afford it. And when people INSIST on it even after we explain that, it just ends up being frustrating because all you're doing is reminding us of our lack of options and helplessness.

Re: Rants thread

(Anonymous) 2015-06-07 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
This.

I have a friend of a friend who keeps pressuring me to go into therapy for my social anxieties (he brought his up while I was at a graduation party for my close friend, so I'm not sure what he was trying to accomplish reminding me of it??), and no reason I give him for not going is good enough. I don't have the money for it and my mom treated therapy like a threat and a punishment when I was a kid, not to mention I currently live with her and I don't want her to know I'm doing it because once she finds out about what label the therapist fixes me with, she'll use it as a reason to berate me (she already does this with my social anxiety).

But at the same time, this friend of a friend is a real asshole who both myself and my friend know projects his insecurities onto other people just to make him feel better, so...