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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-07 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3077 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3077 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Lackadaisy Cats]


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03.
(Gorillaz)


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04.
(Tripping over you)


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05.
[Stitchers]


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06.
[Dragon Age]


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07.
[The Mighty Boosh]


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08.
[LOVE LIVE!]


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09.
[Brooklyn 99]


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10.
[Mad Max Fury Road]


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11.
[Maggie Stiefvater]


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12.
[Emily Alice Ovenden]


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13.
[When Marnie Was There/Omoide no Marnie]


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(Rick and Morty)


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15.
[Suppression]


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16.
[Wall-e]


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17.
[Ancillary Justice & Ancillary Sword]







Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 086 secrets from Secret Submission Post #440.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-08 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's on the person coming to you to inform you whether they want advice or help or not. Often the person leaves it ambiguous, telling you a bunch of their problems and then you're like so... did you want me to help you or give you advice or just listen or what?

A lot of people do not make their desires clear before launching into rants and no it is not easy to tell what they want when all you get is "something has been bothering me" before being flooded with details
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-06-08 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
This specific situation wasn't even one where I went to someone for help, it was literally just "can I give you some advice?" on something that was otherwise completely fine.

Though asking "do you want advice" when someone is talking about something that they're upset about is not at all a bad idea...