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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-09 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3079 ]


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chardmonster: (Default)

That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-06-10 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Men who wish to be considered feminists have to actually walk the walk, not just say they're feminists and act like this makes their every action okay.

In my personal experience guys who claim to be feminist--that is, vocally telling you so--are the least likely to actually give a damn about the implications of feminism. What they ARE going to do is latch onto things like sex positivity as an excuse to act shitty.

Also see: "not my shield," and dudes using "I'm a feminist' as a means to police femininity.

So if you're actually a feminist, how about, I don't know, not treating women like shit? You don't need to go around yelling about how feminist you are to be a feminist. If you feel women need to know you're a feminist in order to believe you respect them, then maybe there's something fucked up about you that would lead them to think otherwise. Work on that.
Edited 2015-06-10 01:27 (UTC)

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
Lol. Okay men, don't say you are a feminist because you are obviously trying to...get into women's pants? Trying to trick women into liking you?

Also, don't NOT say you are a feminist because then you are a misogynist pig.

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Lol I legit don't even know how you can misread a post that hard

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2015-06-10 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
Does anyone over the age of 22 actually give a shit about the flair on your name tag?
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-06-10 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
That's a pretty disingenuous way to read my post! Almost as if you're a moron feeling defensive.

Also that second point isn't even referenced in my post!

But let's give you the benefit of the doubt:

I'm a woman. I'm a feminist. Do you know how frequently I'm actually in situations where it makes sense to tell people out in the real world "I'm a feminist?"

BARELY EVER. I can't remember the last time it came up! I mean it's obvious if you talk to me about anything but I feel no need to wear the t-shirt.

Do you understand, then, why some dude who wants to make it ever so clear to a woman how feminist he is looks like he's covering something up?
Edited 2015-06-10 04:00 (UTC)

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
how to read words gud?

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
Men who wish to be considered feminists have to actually walk the walk, not just say they're feminists and act like this makes their every action okay.

and what about women? Do they have the same burden of proof?
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-06-10 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
I think I know where you're going with this! This pundit has a better argument than I can really articulate at 2:30 AM. I hope it helps.

https://youtu.be/KmTd1fky3AQ

Re: That was a really lame troll, but on this topic:

(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
lolololol

a+ response