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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-25 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3125 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3125 ⌋

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Re: Sis and her BF

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Echoing everyone else - the instant you say "he sounds like an asshole with addiction problems, RUN!", she'll close up. What I would say is that you can absolutely validate her concerns without putting the guy down. "Wow, I understand why that upsets you," "no, you're right to be upset over that," etc. And, as another anon mentioned, ask questions - but tread very lightly when you do.

Is there anyone else in your lives who may have similar concerns? You don't want to gossip, but you may be able to figure something out if you have someone you can talk to (and also trust not to tell her "well Nonnie said he's a jackass", since sadly that sort of thing happens).