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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-27 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3127 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3127 ⌋

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Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
The resentment has definitely been building up, unfortunately. I've done everything over the years from passive-aggressively ignoring her back (which lead to neither of us talking for more than a year) to outright accusations, but I find arguments to be too tiresome these days so more recently I either bite my tongue or I mention it to her using a lot of "I FEEL YOU DO THIS" statements which similarly gets me nowhere. A problem is that she seemingly never gets angry at me for anything so if I bring up her behavior too frequently I feel..........like somehow I'm the bully here? There's a lot of small factors involved that make me feel like I can't express genuine anger at her actions, but the flipside is stating thing thing so gently she brushes it off. Or rather, she says she'll do better, but she's too much of a flake to remember/commit.

ANYWAY, thanks for the support, anon! I feel loads better and you had good things to say. Thanks for listening!