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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-01 03:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3132 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3132 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Not OP, but I think it's a bit of both for me. I've not been properly diagnosed for anything but I do know I have social anxiety and it makes it hard for me to connect with people unless I am comfortable with them.

But at the same time there are popular trends in fandom that just drive me crazy. I hate how fandom coddles characters who are legit villains or bullies and treats them like precious cinnamon rolls. I hate ships that involve lots of one-sided physical/emotional abuse that fandom romanticizes or portrays as for comedic effect. Yet, all these things are popular in my fandom.

I don't mind people liking those kinds of characters or ships if they can accept them for what they are, but the way they fawn over them and enable their bullying behavior makes me kinda uncomfortable.