[ SECRET POST #3132 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #3132 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10. [repeat]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 068 secrets from Secret Submission Post #448.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Were you a bully?

[elaminator]

Yea, I'm not proud of it but I know I've made a few dickish remarks (more-so in my younger years) to people who didn't deserve them. (Never anything massively offensive I think, just...rude.)

But to me 'bullying' implies repeated harassment, and I didn't do that. If I was mean or rude to someone more than once, it was because they were teasing me on a regular basis and I didn't deal with it well.

I was teased all through school for various reasons. Never to the point where I felt unsafe (thankfully no one ever beat me up), and never by a large group of people (usually it was one or two people who singled me out; most people either ignored me or were polite), so I never thought of it as a serious problem... it was just irritating and hurtful.

I was a quiet, shy kid who only had a small group of friends, and spent a lot of time by myself. I didn't like to get into arguments or even stand up for myself for a long time, but at some point I decided if people were going to be assholes to me I was going to call them out for it.

...like to think I'm a bit more chill now, but there's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself.