[ SECRET POST #3144 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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[Grace Kelly, Judy Garland]


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Comments

Re: Sexist mother...venting

[caerbannog]

Honestly anon, I'd start seeing her less. I think you've mentioned her on here before?

She'll probably say mean remarks but if distance self and when she says something particularly offensive or hurtful - be prepared to stand up and just leave. She might not think anything she said was wrong but she might stop voicing them out loud.

Hope you feel better soon :(

Re: Sexist mother...venting

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I have before, but I've also seen posts from other people talking about their mothers where I thought "man, that sounds familiar," so I'm not sure if the one you're talking about was mine or not. Either way, I guess it's not that uncommon!

I talked to my dad about it this morning, and although he's been understanding in the past, he automatically defended her and said I overreacted, when he wasn't even there and is relying on her side of the story. When he should KNOW, based on past events, what she's like and how she minimizes everyone else's feelings to avoid taking responsibility for her behavior. But for whatever reason he didn't, and said "well, she's way meaner to me than she is to you and it doesn't bother me, so you should just get over it."

At this point I'm about ready to just leave the state and quit speaking to both of them.

Re: Sexist mother...venting

[caerbannog]

Could be - unfortunately sometimes users with similar issues blur together, anon or not. But I guess it is nice that you're not alone. Although I'd prefer that none of you had these problems!

Personally I'd encourage you to distance from them. Distances makes the heart go fonder or something, really they will then lack opportunities to be a inappropriate and if they still are on the few occasions you see them? Distance more. Don't like start a fight or anything, just backpeddle away.


As someone who in the past moved states when 'shit got hard', it's not so bad and can be quite refreshing. It's a bumpy start up - new job, new friends, all take a while to develop - but can't say I've regretted it.